All tagged Ancestral Money Wisdom
Vangile explains how the need to control is deeply rooted in trauma responses, including feelings of powerlessness, fear, and a desire to avoid vulnerability. She discusses how control may initially create a sense of safety but can have unintended consequences—from fostering dependency and resentment to reinforcing dysfunctional family patterns. These dynamics can block authentic connection, erode boundaries, and perpetuate cycles of over-responsibility and burnout.
The RunAway’s transformation involves acknowledging the need for change, practicing self-awareness, and learning to feel safe in the body.
Vangile explains that Destroyers, though often misunderstood, play a crucial role in family dynamics. They bring hidden truths and secrets to light, often disrupting the status quo. This role can be painful but ultimately leads to healing and growth within the family.
Vangile also explores the challenges Sweet Ones face in pricing their services and seeking salary increases due to fear of judgment and conflict.
Vangile Makwakwa, Wealthy Money, Ancestral Money Wisdom, Financial Independence, Marriage and Money, Ancestral Trauma Healing, Financial Education, Money Mindset, Generational Wealth, Black Tax, Mother Wound, Father Wound, Survival Mindset, Systemic Racism
Tebello emphasizes the importance of understanding marriage contracts and financial arrangements before marriage. She highlights the dangers of being married in community of property in South Africa, which can lead to shared liabilities and financial complications, advising instead to consider marriage out of community of property with or without accrual.
