What if it's Possible to have a Relaxed and Chilled Relationship with Money, no matter How Much you have in your Bank Account?
There was a time (9 years ago), where I was US$60,000 in debt, earning US$8,000 a month and still unable to pay back a penny of my debt.
Instead I kept recreating debt and using all my earnings to donate to charities or buy things I didn't need. And freaking out that my family would find out that I was making money and would ask me for money, when I really didn't have money.
It was a hot mess.
The irony of this whole situation was that I truly believed I wasn't making any money and would cry to family and friends about this.
I never had enough money and was constantly borrowing money from everyone around me.
Spending money always felt like torture. All I felt when it came to money was shame, anxiety, guilt and frustration.
Shame because my parents had spent soo much on my education, so how could I not have my ish together?
Anxiety and guilt because I never felt like I had enough money.
Frustration because why couldn't I JUST follow a budget?
There's nothing as sad as earning money, having money or making money and NOT knowing what you did with the money!
I know because I lived like this for years.
IT DIDN'T MATTER HOW MUCH MONEY I MADE - MONEY WAS LIKE WATER THROUGH MY HANDS
And no matter how hard I tried to budget or be self disciplined I failed miserably or just ended up feeling frustrated when I tried to follow a budget.
To be honest, sticking to a budget felt like all my life was being sucked out of me.
This is why I started doing the work I do with money, because I felt there had to be a better way to work with money and change my spending habits without beating myself up and constantly trying to shrink myself to spend as little as possible.
What if it's possible to have a relaxed and chilled relationship with money no matter how much you have in your bank account?
What if you could feel calm about spending money?
I created the Fall In Love With Your Bank Account Challenge to help people heal their fears and traumas around their bank account.
The course is not just another budgeting course that will tell you to spend less money.
Nope!
In this course the focus is on healing, you will work with your emotions and learn to stop judging yourself for feeling what you feel.
You'll start to heal the trauma you have around handling money - that trauma that is stored in your body and then you will do the practical work around money.
At no point will you be made to feel like you have to give up the pleasures of life in order to "get ahead" and be financially stable.
Because if you are anything like me that actually freaks you out and triggers all your childhood traumas, which leads to a spending spree.
The tools and meditations I'll be teaching in the course are some of the things that allow me to travel debt free, without a credit card as I run #WealthyMoney.
I paid off my US$60,000 in debt in 4 years and started a new chapter of my life as a traveling entrepreneur in 2015.
In 2019, I traveled to 8 countries and spent a month or more in each place, without incurring any debt. Even on my travels I still continue to save and contribute to my investment accounts, which for me has been the biggest shift, because like I said - money used to be like water through my hands.
Some cool things I've done:
✔️ I hosted 4 international retreats in Sri Lankan and Thailand and am still alive to tell the tale
✔️ Renovated my mom's house in the village and turned it into a retreat center and hosted 2 retreats in that house
✔️ Paid my mother for the use of her house and helped her create an extra stream of income using the property
✔️ Renovated my apartment in Cape Town every square inch and paid for everything in cash even though it cost an UNEXPECTED US$10,000/ZAR140,000
✔️ I increased the rental price on said apartment by 75%
✔️ Launched the Property Magicians Podcast, a real estate podcast, with Mizo (my co-host)
✔️ I discovered 5 hour massages and my life has never been the same
I'm not sharing this to brag but because I am also in awe of life and how things have changed.
There was a time in my life when I thought the only way to travel or do the things I want was with debt or credit cards.
When people ask how all this is happening, I respond with: "Healing money trauma knowing exactly what's happening in my bank account."
I know it sounds like a pitch but that's the truth.
The more I run the bank account challenge with other people, the more I see how healing our money trauma is what leads to lasting financial change.
I HAVE NO BLESSOR (although I am soo not against one).
I also don't have a significant other who donates to any of my adventures, so all my travels are cash and thanks to this work, in particular being able to fall in love with my bank account.
I only have coaches and the inner work that I teach and I've seen constantly how healing deep wounds and trauma around money, leads to a financial shift.
I'm not gonna lie and say that it's easy or fast - but when you do the work consistently, a shift happens.
Your emotional reaction to money changes and the way you respond to financial matters shifts.
My students and clients are proof of this.
The course is for you, if you are ready to:
🌟Feel calm about money, no matter how much is in their bank account
🌟 Always know where their money is going
🌟 Save consistently with ease every month
🌟 Get their money right and produce tangible evidence of what they did with their money
🌟 Feel financially safe because they know they have money for any unexpected emergencies
🌟 Have fun with money and spend money on themselves WITHOUT feeling guilty or scared that they are going to break the bank
🌟 To work on their savings goal with a money tribe in a secret Facebook group, using the power of collective energy to reach their goals
🌟 To do the inner work, guided meditations and worksheets, live (in real time) with a coach for 5 days every quarter. Imagine how that kind of support would change your finances...
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