All tagged money trauma
If someone grew up in a household where they were constantly criticized, verbally or emotionally attacked or beaten for being wrong or making mistakes, they will learn to defend themselves by never claiming responsibility for mistakes they made because they are scared of the punishment associated with making mistakes.
There is no shame in being poor and finding yourself spending money on crazy things
Listen!
Poverty is freaking draining. Not having money for months is depressing AF!
In 2020 a woman on Twitter shared that she was the sole breadwinner in her marriage but was shutting down her successful company that employed 15 people, because her UNEMPLOYED husband wanted her to, because he didn't feel like he could look after their toddler.
One of the fears we work on in the Fall In Love With Your Bank Account Challenge is the fear of running out of money and the shame we feel around our finances.
The only difference with this show and some of our family dynamics is that Tinder Swindler is about romance and fraud and of course the amounts are on a large scale. But truth is – people get into debt for family members and to support family members/ friends who are able to do for themselves.
So how does this happen and how is Tinder Swindler doing this?
