I LOVE how soo many of my clients talk about me giving non-conventional financial advise and how their lives wildly change from that.
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I LOVE how soo many of my clients talk about me giving non-conventional financial advise and how their lives wildly change from that.
A while back, in the middle of a full body workout with my personal trainer, I felt all this fear and sadness in my body (especially my womb) and stopped the session to scream into pillows, went back to the workout, paused, did some womb breathwork and then fire breathing.
Having money (or more money than we’re used to) can feel unsettling and unsafe in our nervous systems; in an effort to protect us, the parts of us that feel scared/unsafe, guilty/ashamed etc. with having more money (or being seen/being powerful/being carefree etc.) block money or get rid of money to "keep us alive."
If there’s one thing I wish someone had told me when I was drowning in US$60,000 (R700, 000 then) debt, it was that - you can be strategic in how you pay off your debt.
A few years ago, I had a call with Dr Venus and I learned that she charged US$20 000 to coach people (I think her fees may have gone up now).
Up until then, I’d never met a coach, let alone a Black coach that charged that much and I couldn't understand who would pay that much for coaching or masterminds.
This obsession with having fiscal discipline or being positive, used to cause me so much pain and shame, because it used to make me feel weak willed and like there was something wrong with me!